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I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:11 pm
by BeastProwl
I walked in to wake my mom up this morning, and found her there, dead.

I'm leaving. I don't know when i'll be back. Just know that i'll be around. I just don't know what to do now. This sort of thing has never happened to me before. I've never felt so numb and depressed. It feels like a part of me is gone, but I can't believe it. I just cant believe it.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:14 pm
by Rodimus Prime
:shock: Seriously?! I'm really sorry to hear that! I hope you have some support from family and friends...

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:26 pm
by Va'al
I was going to reply all snarky to the title, but then I read the post.

Really sorry to hear that, it has never happened to me either, and I wouldn't know what to do in a situation like it.

If you feel the need for help, don't underestimate counsellors (are they free in the US as they are for students in the UK?). Just don't do anything rash or too impulsive.

Take a break, and think about family for now.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 1:50 pm
by Burn
Va'al wrote:I was going to reply all snarky to the title, but then I read the post.


Same.

Thing is, don't stay away too long. You've got a few mates on this site who will probably worry about you, plus you have people to talk through who have probably been through what you now have to deal with.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 6:51 pm
by Mkall
Damn dude, I'm truly sorry. I hope you'll be ok. Take as much time as you need and don't be afraid to talk to people, be it counselors, friends, other family members, or just hit up some buddies here on the site.

Good Luck

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:36 pm
by RK_Striker_JK_5
My deepest condolences on this. Just... wow. :( *Hugs* I'd recommend counseling, definitely.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:14 pm
by Shadowman
BeastProwl wrote:I walked in to wake my mom up this morning, and found her there, dead.


One of the few things in my adult life to make me genuinely gasp.

I hope you pull through, man.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:15 am
by RhA
Wow! Well, be back as soon as you want to. I mean, who else is going to reply to EVERY thread?

No seriously, take your time. My condoleances, man.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:49 am
by d_sel1
Take care BeastProwl. Our prayers are with you.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 7:48 am
by Wigglez
That sucks so bad. I went through the same thing with my dad. It'll take time but you'll get better. Just take your time, with EVERYTHING.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 8:56 am
by PrymeStriker
Whoa. This thread took me by complete surprise. Sorry to hear that. Take as much time off as you need. :-(

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 9:37 am
by SJ21
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. You know you have people here for support.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Wed Oct 17, 2012 11:54 am
by Cyber Bishop
Wow... I am somewhat speechless after reading this thread..... I am so sorry to hear of your loss man.. Just remember you have buds here if you need people to talk to.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2012 12:13 am
by FortMacs
Sorry to hear that.

May not seem like it now but the numbness and depression will pass in time. Just have to try your best to focus on the good when she was with you and that will help.

Ever need to vent ill listen. Unfortunatly ive been through similar situations far to many times.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2012 6:47 am
by Cobalt Prime
I am truly sorry for your loss.

My prayers are with you and your family.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Thu Oct 18, 2012 9:03 pm
by BeastProwl
thank you, all of you. its been tough. my grandmother flew out the same day, and more family arrived so i could take her belongings with me in their car. we dont have internet out here in georgia yet, doing this from my phone. im glad to have support from so many people, on this site and everywere else. im surrounded by a loving family, so i dont need a counselor. ive accepted it, though im still numb.

Re: I'm not coming back for a while

PostPosted: Wed Oct 24, 2012 1:48 pm
by It Is Him
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone you love is never easy.