Turns out I don't have to say anything!
So ... the other day we had our band breakup, one woman, who happens to be my sort-of-didnt-go-out-long-enough-to-really-be-considered ex made a cheesecake and brought it along.
Unfortunately she had to leave as her son was upset so she asked me to drop the cheesecake dish in the next day.
No worries ....
I took the dish home and told my family they could have the rest. Turns out, bad thing to do!
I get an e-mail at work the next day from said woman who's having a bad day and wanted some cheesecake. I told her there was none left.
... wow. She became, in her own words, "f****ing p***ed off". I didn't bother replying, though I took the dish to her work at lunch time to give to her. Got the cold shoulder treatment I did!
She also un-friended me from Facebook.
Oh and yeah, all that happened on my birthday. Did she give me birthday wishes? NOPE!
I've since had a few brief words with her and apparently it was "not my right to decide who could eat the cheesecake".