doubledealer25 wrote:but due to the horrible elecitrical work people have been electricuted by taking a sower or washing their hands. but i have a little more reasurence. but there is a good side to this whole thing: i get more TFs and city commander upgrade and ultramagnus
No, I wouldn't worry. A friend of mine is one of the "Cat Herders" that helps protect the civillians. He's proud to report many, many successful missions.
The best advice (This coming from more fear of personal loss than Militarian in nayure) is to keep a loose eye on the possible tangent futures. Be ready for the "what ifs". If you prepare for the worst, you will usually get good results. The trick is to keep a close enough eye on things to be ready for anything, without letting it get to you. And if you need to, vent into a pillow. They're soft, so you can punch the stuffing out. They wash, and hold up to a good cry if that's what you need, and sleep is always a good comfort. It relaxes the body.
And talk to people. If it gets to ya, get online with a good group of guys. You'll know them. I;ve found it easier to talk via a keyboard than in person. You get the privacy of a journal, but with the give and take of people that paper and MS word don;t have.
Best of luck to you, family, and Dad.