by T-Macksimus » Tue Mar 29, 2011 4:46 pm
Not too surprising seeing all these tales of bullying, from all of us members and from the links of these videos. I have to add myself to the list, I was bullied too. For me it was a case of being the scrawny kid who looked like easy prey. being the youngest in a large family and therefore being a target for my older brothers, I was already marked heading into school. If it wasn't for one of my cousins teaching me how to fight, a mixture of martial arts and street fighting, I probably wouldn't have made it through high school intact. I had 2 bullies in particular who, at least every other day, would decide it was time to slam-dance me into the lockers. Finally one day I snapped. I saw the one kid give his partner in crime a "power-shove" to get things started and I dropped my books, side stepped and latched onto my 'Dance Partner' and added some more momentum to his journey and forced him face on into the lockers. I finished my spin by launching myself at his accomplice and slammed him into the lockers directly behind him and told him if either of them even thought about touching me again I'd kick both their asses up and down the halls. I remember it like it was yesterday even though it was over 20 years ago and I feel no shame in admitting that remembering the look of terror in their eyes still gives me a warm fuzzy feeling. 2 against 1, both of them bigger than me and I had them scared ****-less! I lost track of the number of times after that that I stepped in the middle of situations where other kids were getting bullied and it didn't matter to me what the odds were. I knew what kind of hell the victims went through and if the bullies wanted to know just what kind of terror they were inflicting on their victims, by god I was willing to dish it right back at them. Almost every single time the altercation ended without a punch being thrown which is the best outcome I could hope for. Let the big kids know their power is limited and let the ones being picked on know that they aren't alone and that they aren't helpless. I applaud the kid in the video for standing up to that little punk. Lord knows the schools don't do enough (or aren't allowed to do enough) to stop this, parents in general these days tend to be the ones causing the kids to become bullies and deserve an ass-whooping themselves, and the laws in general tend to protect the guilty and make the victims suffer more in the long run so there really is only one way to deal with this issue and that's to let the bullies know that you aren't putting up with it and there are consequences if you keep pushing it.
"That which does not kill me...had better run pretty damn fast!"