I don't buy a lot of things from Ebay, so my view isn't the same as people buying and selling often. So when I bid on something, its something I am very interested in. This doesn't mean I will go to any length to win it, but needless to say I am invested in acquiring it.
It seems that whenever I lose an auction or something falls through, the desire to get that item faster goes way up, to a financially unwise level. I am 25 and smart with my money, definitely not one to purchase unreasonably priced items for no reason. Yet this feeling still is there.
For instance, today I was bidding on a basically mint condition loose God Neptune. Because the buyer was local and i was going to pick it up and pay cash, I submitted a best offer after emailing him. This best offer was financially better for him than any buy it now would have been... yet in the time between my offer, and him being able to check his email to accept it... someone else used buy it now.
Pretty crushing defeat. I don't want MIB Neptune, because I am just going to tear it open. The seller doesn't want to sell it to him over me, but is now obligated to by lovely Ebay policies.
Now I am foaming at the mouth to have him just to get rid of this annoying feeling, and looking at 100$ more expensive MIB auctions. I won't buy them, but its a struggle to remember how silly I am being.
I've also done this on items in the past and ended up spending more because I am kicking myself over a misstep or deal I should have acted on in this past.
How do you react to lost auctions on prized acquisitions? Or am I one of the few bidders whose mind still won't isn't satisfied, even though I KNOW there will be others listed in the future.
(this is my outlet to distract me from browsing ebay in frustration
