Shadowman wrote:When someone says "adorable" I think puppies, or kittens, not a 30 foot tall walking death machine that turns into an F-15.
Awww, there you go, thinking like a *man* again. Think: which is more useful in life: a high maintenance twig of a girlfriend who won't do anything that messes up her hair, or a 30 foot tall walking death machine that turns into a jet. I know which I'd rather have on MY side.
hellkitty wrote:If you solve this one, though, maybe you could then explain to me what all y'all men see in Megan Fox? Kim Kardashian? Eliza Dushku?
They're all attractive women. Men are attracted to beautiful women, it's a fact of life, and the least complicated thing ever. A tree is more complicated than that. [/quote]
That's simply not the whole story. Yes, those ladies are considered attractive, but a) is that really all you're looking for? Are men so frickin' SHALLOW?! I refuse to accept that! and b) your notion of what is 'attractive' isn't based on some universal standard.
Case in point: Renaissance nudes. By today's standards, they'd be in some obesity clinic. They were the hottest of the hot in the 16th century.
A Thai student of mine once told he he couldn't figure out how American men were so dumb. In Thailand, he said, beautiful women were fat and as pale skinned as possible (being Thai, after all). Why? Because plump and pale in Thailand meant you were a) rich enough you didn't have to get out in that nasty sun and work, and b) that you were rich enough to have MORE than enough food to eat.
Our, or rather, your standard of female attractiveness today says pretty much the same thing: women who are thin and tan and toned with all that hair and nail stuff say that they have time and money to blow simply on self-adornment.
Why, pray tell, wasn't there a size 0 twenty years ago? Simple: women weren't that skinny. Why? Because the hippy aesthetic was still more or less in charge.
And if you still want to argue 'attractive' is a universal state, please explain to me hair bands. Why were groups like Stryper, Motley Crue, etc, so successful in getting chicks? They were clearly 'attractive' in the most literal sense of the word, yes? Would that work today when the 'look' is all urban and street and pants hangin' off your booty?
HK, aesthetically challenging.