homelessjunkeon wrote:As far as eBay is concerned it's the buyers they need to cater to.
Their logic is that people will always want to sell things, but you need to keep the buyers sweet in order to get them to come back.
Look at paypalsucks.com, almost all of the major problems with PP are reported by sellers. I don't blame sellers for being angry when they get the shaft, but stuff like the OP is stepping over a whole bunch of lines.
At its most basic and fundamental level a sales contract is an agreement based on mutual trust, and I should hope at least some degree of respect. When a seller tells you off the bat that they don't trust you, why should you trust them?
It's like a barman pouring a drink and pointing a gun at the punter's head just to make sure they pay for it.
I know there are a lot more poopy buyers on eBay than sellers though, just because the dispute system is weighted so completely in their favour. I've seen some cases where there is no way in hell that the seller has done anything wrong, and they've then had their PP account locked (losing no small amount of money in the process), and the buyer walked away with the item, and their money.
I agree that there are plenty of buyers who are complete scum (you see the numerous feedbacks all the time.)
However, here's one thing to consider: How many sellers do the exact same thing to the buyer? I've seen that time and again where the buyer never receives their item and the seller keeps their money and even though PayPal rules in the buyer's favor, they still can't reclaim the payment for them.
I think the entire system needs an overhaul, from auctions to payments to disputes, etc.
It's sad that eBay went from something neat to do to help you find what you needed, to being a gray market with enforcers with victims on both sides.
I hate eBay for that. I really, truly do.
I miss the days where you posted an auction, the people paid, you left feedback (good or bad) and just let the chips fall where they may. How difficult is that? Seriously. Taking the simplest thing and making it into this complicated mish mash of rules that assist no one, and screw everyone was their biggest mistake.
I'm all for eBay getting their cut, because they are providing a service, but it's just out of hand. Of course we can't expect them to regulate themselves, because the house always wins.
*sighs and raises glass* To the old eBay, we hardly knew ye.
NOTE: Realize that I am not a perfect Christian, nor do I profess to be. I apologize if anyone's ever offended by me, I'm not perfect. Don't hold my posts and opinions against other Christians.