Dark Zarak wrote:PorQPine wrote:Mild Clausterphobia in general. But mostly I hate being touched by unfamiliar people. As far as I'm concerned it's an act of aggression...the last guy that put his hands on me in a bar ended up with a sprained wrist and a night in jail. Thank goodness security saw the whole thing, otherwise I may have been up on assault charges.
How do you feel about handshakes? Some people are literally bothered by even that.
And what about the cute chick you just met who touches your arm when she laughs?
Those things I don't mind, I actually prefer to shake hands when I meet someone new, because it is a mutual act of respect. As far as the cute chick, as long as I know her name I'll be okay with a touch on the arm, etc...otherwise I'm usually turned off by that kind of instant familiarity, even if it is because she likes me or finds me attractive.
Touch is important to me, but touchy, feely strangers always rub me the wrong way.
In the instance I posted, the guy was drunk and we got into an argument, and after I told him to go sleep it off, he grabbed my shirt and started to shove me against the wall. Turns out he was a regular who was known for starting fights, which is why I didn't get into any trouble after subduing him. Security told the cops that I was just defending myself(which is true), and the nature of his injury showed no malice or intent to harm, so they let it go and tossed the guy in the drunk-tank for the night.
I think that it sticks with me due to my family life...most often when my mom or dad went to grab me, it wasn't a good thing...so I developed a defensive nature about being touched in general.