by TJ Duckett » Wed Dec 29, 2010 10:50 am
This isn't to be rude to you or anything, but honestly, I have a job, girlfriend, life, etc. etc.. However, I have a "moral code" if you will that let's me take two minutes out of my day to contact people I've made agreements with to let them know something came up, even if I don't get too crazy in depth. Especially if certain dates and whatnot are set in stone. As you know, I do graphic/design work outside of my full time job... do you really not think I don't have things come up? Of course I do, but, like I said, it takes seconds to give someone the common courtesy and respect of letting them know.
I never said that you were trying to "steal" from me, and, as I told you, I was actually excited to work with you on the site, bc, that's the kind of stuff I love to do, and, honestly, it'd be awesome to have a part in an idea like the one I saw on your site that could potentially do pretty well for you if advertised right. However, fact is, you went from great communication, to horse-crap, so that did raise concern. This is online, not in person. I can't just give you a ring and "see what's up": For all I know you could've had your house burn down, or have literally been DEAD, so of course I'm going to put in a dispute on paypal, because they can always be CLOSED as soon as there's contact.
And yes, having dealt with multiple sellers AND buyers/traders on here, I have come to expect some sort of communication when things aren't going as planned just out of plain respect man.
If I didn't trust you and feel good about the offer or trust you as a seller, I wouldn't've given you my money. Period.
I don't know how to explain it to you any better, but, at the end of the day, it's the principle of it all more than anything else. And, the fact that you just plain gave refunds, instead of, I dunno'... SHIPPING THE ITEMS, doesn't really bode too well in your favor. Even at this point, all you had to say was, "My bad guys, some stuff came up - sorry", but you're going the polar opposite route and trying to make us feel bad for protecting ourselves as buyers, which is just plain wrong.