The Energon Pub

Hi all, im 16 and entering my second year in highschool, and one gorup of my friends all like to have sleepovers all the time. Is that normal? I don't like sleepovers much sence one i always wake up with a back ache and theres not much u do at a sleepover that can't be done by hanging out. And the worst part is everytime i say no they make a big fuss about it. My one friend is fine with it and dosen't care much. The other big prob is my one friend lies and tries to make me feel bad. Like when i didnt go to one bday sleepover cause i was sick and he said the kid's little borther was crying saying where is he? And the brother told me it wasen't true! And my one friend has done that a few other times. Like when we were trying to get one frined to go see rush hour 3 with us even though he had just gotten home from a 6 hour plane ride and gotten back at 5 am. He haden't slept sence, and i told my friend if he dosen't wanna go don't make him. And he tells me just tell him we can't do it any other day. And i told him we can and he says, ye, but he dosen't know that. I just told him what i was going to already and he got pissed. Now he wants another bday sleepover for himself what should i do?

Well, in high school, many people, at least where I'm from, have sleepovers. Some people, like my brother, just want to hang out with his friends longer. Some sleepovers are just drinking parties. If your friend is having a birthday sleepover, you might want to tell them that you'll go to part of it, like stay until midnight or so, but that you'll be going home later. Or something like that.

I thought sleepovers were a girl thing?

I never heard of a guy sleep over even when I was in high school

Mr.Bond007 wrote:The other big prob is my one friend lies and tries to make me feel bad.

To be fair, that doesn't sound like much of a friend.

Wheeljack35 wrote:I thought sleepovers were a girl thing?

I never heard of a guy sleep over even when I was in high school

Sorry but this sounds gay

indeed it does thats another reason i don't go. I just wish they would be like some of my other friends and just respect my saying no.

Mr.Bond007 wrote:

Wheeljack35 wrote:I thought sleepovers were a girl thing?

I never heard of a guy sleep over even when I was in high school

Sorry but this sounds gay

indeed it does thats another reason i don't go. I just wish they would be like some of my other friends and just respect my saying no.

If it was a girl I would be all over you to go

tequila stu wrote:

Mr.Bond007 wrote:The other big prob is my one friend lies and tries to make me feel bad.

To be fair, that doesn't sound like much of a friend.

idk why he's like that. He's used to getting everything he wants though...

Mr.Bond007 wrote:idk why he's like that. He's used to getting everything he wants though...

Somehow it sounds like you answered your own question.

Sometimes I would stay over on a Fri nite so we could do something early on Sat morn. However, mostly my boys and me would go camping in the woods. Have a fire, drink a pack, smoke a bowl, type of thing. The key is to bring a CD player(back then we had these things called "Cassettes") anyway, play some load music, start a punching match(lick for lick) and then stay up as late as possible and torture whoever fell asleep first.

My only advice is:

If you have a friend who asks, "If you went camping, and woke up with a sore butt, and vaseline all over it, would you tell anybody?" You need to stay away from that one...

if Alan Shore and Denny Crane can have sleep overs anyone can.

If I have a sleepover at my place, will you all attend?

Will there be booze, pizza and video games?

just got off the phone he said we're prolly not gonna have a sleepover anyway

Sleepovers are pretty normal. Booze, pizza and videogames.

I wouldn't call it gay. Sounds like you're just very wary of your own sexuality. ^_~

For guys, it's only "gay" when you call it a sleepover. You call it "crashing for the night" or something. You don't drag out your sleeping bags and make popcorn and tell gossip stories at a guy sleepover. That is ONLY for girls.

tequila stu wrote:Will there be booze, pizza and video games?

fo' shizzle

Hell yeah.

Mr.Bond007 wrote:

Wheeljack35 wrote:I thought sleepovers were a girl thing?

I never heard of a guy sleep over even when I was in high school

Sorry but this sounds gay

indeed it does thats another reason i don't go. I just wish they would be like some of my other friends and just respect my saying no.

That's because for guys they're not called sleepovers.

They're called 'going on the pull with free B&B'


And yes they're pretty damn normal. This is the first night I've spent home. But then again we play as a band each time we meet up, so...

The Master Blaster wrote:

Mr.Bond007 wrote:

Wheeljack35 wrote:I thought sleepovers were a girl thing?

I never heard of a guy sleep over even when I was in high school

Sorry but this sounds gay

indeed it does thats another reason i don't go. I just wish they would be like some of my other friends and just respect my saying no.

That's because for guys they're not called sleepovers.

They're called 'going on the pull with free B&B'


And yes they're pretty damn normal. This is the first night I've spent home. But then again we play as a band each time we meet up, so...

A flute band by any chance

Counterpunch wrote:

tequila stu wrote:Will there be booze, pizza and video games?

fo' shizzle

I will bring the Malibu

Mr.Bond007 wrote:Hi all, im 16 and entering my second year in highschool, and one gorup of my friends all like to have sleepovers all the time. Is that normal? I don't like sleepovers much sence one i always wake up with a back ache and theres not much u do at a sleepover that can't be done by hanging out. And the worst part is everytime i say no they make a big fuss about it. My one friend is fine with it and dosen't care much. The other big prob is my one friend lies and tries to make me feel bad. Like when i didnt go to one bday sleepover cause i was sick and he said the kid's little borther was crying saying where is he? And the brother told me it wasen't true! And my one friend has done that a few other times. Like when we were trying to get one frined to go see rush hour 3 with us even though he had just gotten home from a 6 hour plane ride and gotten back at 5 am. He haden't slept sence, and i told my friend if he dosen't wanna go don't make him. And he tells me just tell him we can't do it any other day. And i told him we can and he says, ye, but he dosen't know that. I just told him what i was going to already and he got pissed. Now he wants another bday sleepover for himself what should i do?

The best advice I could give is to call them fags and beat them up.

homelessjunkeon wrote:

Mr.Bond007 wrote:Hi all, im 16 and entering my second year in highschool, and one gorup of my friends all like to have sleepovers all the time. Is that normal? I don't like sleepovers much sence one i always wake up with a back ache and theres not much u do at a sleepover that can't be done by hanging out. And the worst part is everytime i say no they make a big fuss about it. My one friend is fine with it and dosen't care much. The other big prob is my one friend lies and tries to make me feel bad. Like when i didnt go to one bday sleepover cause i was sick and he said the kid's little borther was crying saying where is he? And the brother told me it wasen't true! And my one friend has done that a few other times. Like when we were trying to get one frined to go see rush hour 3 with us even though he had just gotten home from a 6 hour plane ride and gotten back at 5 am. He haden't slept sence, and i told my friend if he dosen't wanna go don't make him. And he tells me just tell him we can't do it any other day. And i told him we can and he says, ye, but he dosen't know that. I just told him what i was going to already and he got pissed. Now he wants another bday sleepover for himself what should i do?

The best advice I could give is to call them fags and beat them up.

But why would you call someone a cigarette?

Counterpunch wrote:

tequila stu wrote:Will there be booze, pizza and video games?

fo' shizzle

My nizzle?

Moonbase2 wrote:For guys, it's only "gay" when you call it a sleepover. You call it "crashing for the night" or something. You don't drag out your sleeping bags and make popcorn and tell gossip stories at a guy sleepover. That is ONLY for girls.

And there's very little actually "sleeping", or even laying down, unless you count passing out at 4 in the morning after 8 straight hours of Halo, Monster, and conversations about that hot blond you buggered last week.

DesalationReborn wrote:

Moonbase2 wrote:For guys, it's only "gay" when you call it a sleepover. You call it "crashing for the night" or something. You don't drag out your sleeping bags and make popcorn and tell gossip stories at a guy sleepover. That is ONLY for girls.

And there's very little actually "sleeping", or even laying down, unless you count passing out at 4 in the morning after 8 straight hours of Halo, Monster, and conversations about that hot blond you buggered last week.

Me and Tweezy usually stay up late watching Adult Swim, looking up ecchi (A fancy word for non-nude hentai), and playing a game called "Fred's On Fire" which is a lot like Guitar Hero.

We call it "Spending the Night," NOT "sleepover."

Ungodly doses of Caffeine may be involved.