Professor Smooth wrote:If you can't or won't defend your beliefs, then they're obviously not very important to you and, thus, should not be above criticism.
*sighs* I could've bet a million. This is why I want the discussion of Religion removed from the Philosopher's Forum. I just knew, sooner or later, a comment like this would come from you. You just absolutely cannot let it go without stoking the fire just a little bit. You really *do* live for it, don't you?
We can defend our beliefs. You just tear down everything we said in response. (at least you think you've torn it down, when in actuality, you've abused us and our opinion with your harsh words and condescending tone.) We do it again, or answer a different question, you do it again.
Again and again and again. A vicious cycle that never ends. Even other posters past a certain point give up and move onto the next topic. You're like a dog with a bone, you just can't put it down and do something else. Oh no, we're going to answer to you for every single question you ask. You're gonna grill us until you're satisfied and even then, it's questionable as to whether or not you'll give it a rest.
You don't believe in God, you don't even like the idea of God. You don't like the fact that people believe in him because he doesn't fit *your* world. We get that. We got it the first time, we got it the umpteenth time and we got it now. Is there really any necessary point in continuing once you've gotten your point across? Like I said, we get it. You don't have to repeat and remind us all the time, but you do it anyway.
Others give it a rest, but you just have to push and prod and push some more. Is it *so* important that we see the world the way you do? I'm asking seriously, because I absolutely cannot figure it out. I've spoken to other Atheists/Non-Deists/Whatever you wish to be called, and after a certain point, we both said to each other "Look, you and I don't see eye to eye on this. It's better if we just shut up and let it drop." And then my friend (who's Athiest), his sister and a couple of other friends sat in the living room and watched a bunch of movies and ate pizza.
None of us could do that with you. We couldn't have a debate, then move onto movies and pizza, having a good time in the living room. You'd still sit there, even after everyone else was having a good time and moved on... and you'd just blurt out something like "JUST TELL ME WHY! YOU CAN'T GIVE ME AN ANSWER, CAN YOU?! I DIDN'T THINK SO! WHERE'S YOUR GOD NOW?! HUH?! HUH?! TELL ME!!!"* Even the other people in the room would look at you and say "Dude! Give it up! We've already discussed this, CUT IT OUT!"
*= and while that's exaggerated a bit, that *is* how you come across in these discussions. Especially the Islam thread.
We Christians (and any other religious/spiritual folks) are tired of having to defend our beliefs and why we feel the way we do, from someone like you. You've shown that you're bitter and angry most of the time and you definitely let it out in your posts.
You berate us and belittle and talk down to us, and when that doesn't work, you just get outright offensive and personally insult us. (and mocking our Gods, our beliefs, both of which are extremely personal to us, is an insult.)
I don't know what your problem is, I couldn't even begin to come up with a diagnosis, but I'm sick and tired of it. Many are sick and tired of it. It's not your beliefs that bother us (I could care less whether or not you feel the same way I do, you're entitled to what you believe) it's your argumentative and confrontational attitude all the time. You're not even willing to give us the right to believe how we want. If you could take it away, you *would* and you'd be so smug and content about it.
Why? It doesn't affect you personally if harmless and kind old Miss Hattie hobbles on her walker to the corner Church every Sunday morning. If you think it does, then I'm sorry you feel that way, I'm not sure that any of us can help you correct it though. I'm not even sure you'd want us to, because I know some people thrive on such a thing. (Which is your prerogative, but it makes for misery for the rest of us and that isn't fair.)
*sighs* I did it again. I fell into that trap. -_- (sorry for the long post folks. I didn't mean to take up the whole page with this.)
Senor Hugo wrote:Professor Smooth wrote:If you can't or won't defend your beliefs, then they're obviously not very important to you and, thus, should not be above criticism.
And that would be the reason why the forum was shut down.
Who are you to say that someone's beliefs aren't important to them, just because they decide not to be pulled into another debate that does nothing but attack that person's beliefs in the first place?
I mean seriously. I've read through the threads, people did stand up for their beliefs, then they were attacked again, and again, and again, and again. So whats the point in trying to defend what you believe in, when you know you're just going to get berated for it right after.
A person's beliefs are their own. If they chose to defend those beliefs or not, does not lessen or cheapen those beliefs that they hold. To say that they do, well that just says more about you than it does about them.
I just want to say (and no, I'm not asking you to pick sides or anything, just wanted to say this) that I truly appreciate this post, Hugo. You didn't have to, but you did it anyway. He won't listen to me, or anyone who thinks like me. You're generally a voice of reason here, so he'll most likely take notice.
It's nice to have someone on the outside basically say "Cut it out."
So, thank you.
And yes, before anyone says it, I'm just as guilty of being passionate and opinionated and not knowing when to just shut up sometimes. I realize I too am at fault in some of this, I don't want people thinking I go around with an ego and telling myself that I'm perfect or something. I'm not. I grapple with being just okay, everyday.
NOTE: Realize that I am not a perfect Christian, nor do I profess to be. I apologize if anyone's ever offended by me, I'm not perfect. Don't hold my posts and opinions against other Christians.