Pontimax01 wrote:Do you have some agenda with this?
Let me explain my 'agenda'. I found out Hasbro was naming a toy 'Spastic'. I thought, "Oops, they'll catch it for that", and looked around to see if anyone was discussing it on any of the usual TF sites. The ones I post on mainly weren't really bothering with it but lo and behold, on here there were a bunch of people making utterly bizarre arguments about why people being 'offended' by it need to lighten up, complaining about it being 'PC', acting as if it was just some kind of slang or swearword, completely missing the point.
I joined up to clear up what I saw as an obvious misunderstanding and have become steadily more exasperated by the amount of people who seem to have trouble understanding the basic proposition that using a neutral medical term as an insult has harmful consequences, whether or not you think it's 'offensive' to call someone that.
I have to wonder if you're all just deliberately missing the point because it's so offensive to *you* to have it pointed out that you might want to rethink the ways in which words can do damage. You all seem to act like a word is either taboo/offensive/charged with hatred, or it isn't. Black and white. You don't seem to get that a word can seem completely harmless to one group of people because they don't understand or think about it's original meaning, and quite damaging to the group who *do* understand it - the people who actually suffer from spastic cerebral palsy or other kinds of spasticity.
What makes me annoyed? The fact that Americans who fall into this category might well be actively upset, depressed, marginalised by your use of this word, and you're all totally blase about this. Maybe you think these people don't exist in America?
Pontimax wrote:Would you like me to list several hundred words that would get you punched in the face here?
And for the umpteenth time, it's not about 'words that would get you punched in the face'. It's not what different cultures have as their 'taboo' words/hate words/swear words. It's about the fact that by using a term for a medical condition as a derogatory expression, you give that word a negativity that is then carried to people who *are* actually spastic.
Dagon wrote:For that, I'm glad Hasbro is changing the name, but if it isn't going to be sold outside the States anyway, then what's the big deal about the name?
See above + all my other posts. The big deal is whether you are hurting a marginalised group - in America, not Britain. Some kid grows up being told by doctors and his parents that he suffers from spastic cerebral palsy, a real medical condition. He goes to school and hears the other kids calling each other 'spastic' whenever they do something clumsy or foolish. How is he going to avoid feeling that other people think a 'spastic' is something bad, huh? How can he miss that?
I just don't get why it seems to be so hard to consider *this* idea for a change, and stop with all the rubbish about 'Brits' being 'offended'. I'm not 'offended' by the word. If you called me a spastic, I wouldn't be any more offended than if you called me a fool or a moron. It's an insult, but it's a relatively mild one. It's not as harsh as, say, 'f**kwit'.
But the point is *not* how insulting it is when you use it on another able-bodied person. It's not about how 'strong' a swear word it is. The point is that using it as any kind of insult, even a soft one, is charging the word with a negativity that then passes on to the people to whom the word actually, when properly used, applies! Surely I've explained this a dozen or more times now? So why are you still getting the argument so incredibly wrong as to summarise it thusly:
Dagon wrote:The other part of the issue is that Jack_Cade is trying to make some argument that slang usage is somehow universal amongst all members of a language group ...
I mean, I've never said or implied anything like this! It's bizarre, it's wrong, and it's a million miles from the actual point I've been trying to make!
Dagon wrote:...because they don't share some place of initial outrage ...
I have to wonder if this is coming through on the other end at all. Hello? Is the line fuzzy? Are my words getting garbled? Because I've already pointed out, probably more than once, that I didn't react with 'outrage' to Hasbro's initial mess-up. I don't have any beef with Hasbro at all. They made a mistake, they caught some flak for it, they cleared it up. My beef is with you guys completely turning a deaf ear to the damage done when you use a word that is associated with a minority group as an insult, and instead pretending it's all about cultural barriers.
Let me throw in another couple of examples in the vain hope that some kind of light will open in the clouds.
'Slag'. In Britain, this is a slang term for a promiscuous woman, and a very insulting thing to yell at someone - in certain circumstances, more insulting than 'spastic'. As a result, Hasbro don't name characters 'Slag' over here any more. But do I have a problem with 'slag'? No, I don't. I wish they *would* call the character 'Slag'. It's a good name and it works for him. We all know full well they mean the other meaning of 'slag'. More importantly, IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IT'S SLANG AND IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IT'S AN INSULT PER SE. Sorry to cap that up, but that really isn't the issue. So think about it. Why would I not object to 'slag', but still to 'spastic'? The answers, ladies and gents, are above and in my previous posts.
Second example: I'm going to assume, for these purposes, that some or most of you are white. Suppose you got transported to another dimension or another country where most people were black and 'whiteboy' was a derogatory term that meant 'buffoon' or 'loser'. So everywhere you go, guys are jokingly calling each other 'whiteboy'. "What do you mean you aren't coming out? Don't be such a whiteboy!" "You dropped the beers? You whiteboy!" . When you confront someone about this, they explain: "Oh, we don't use the word to actually refer to white guys. We're not racist. It's just, you know, kidding around. It's not offensive."
How long do you think it would take, honestly, before this started to get to you? Come on - be honest.