Jeysie wrote:I think the problem is that you're assuming this board here is the only time I've ever discussed the matter, or that I have no experience with creativity outside of TF, or some such.
Essentially, I think you're projecting things onto me that I'm not actually feeling and/or don't actually apply.
You yourself have said that you've been "depressed" over comments made. That clearly is stating a feeling. I'm not assuming anything. What i'm saying is simple.
"If someone says something to you in a negative manner over something you're passionate about, don't let it upset you".
Now you could walk away, or you could defend it. Whatever you do, just don't let it upset you. Plain and simple.
That's not assuming anything, whether you discuss it just here, at other sites, or face to face. It applies to everything.
It's a lesson in life, there are going to be people that disagree with you on something, or even go so far as to attack you over something you're passionate about, you can defend yourself, but NEVER EVER let them get under your skin.
That's all i've ever been trying to say.
And i've also never said you had no experience with creativity, in fact, I fail to see why that's even relevant to the discussion. If anyone's projecting it's you taking my words, reading far into them too much and coming to the conclusion that I have some opinion of you as a person and that it's a negative one.
But if you want my thoughts on you, I would have to say that you seem like a pretty decent chick, but that is something I can only ascertain from the few conversations you and I have had.
Such is the joy of the internets, where the written word doesn't often convey the correct tones and inflections which often result in confusion. What an advancement in communication technology!