Caelus wrote:5150 Cruiser wrote:And this is not a completions. There's no need for comments of "man, thats blow my donation out of the water", Or "I dare you to do better"
I assume you mean competition - in which case I see no reason for it not to be. The source of the motivation should be irrelevant, so long as it spurs people on to do something useful.
Pride will do as well as altruism, and is in far greater abundance.
Proverbs 16:18 wrote:Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.
And just because you're jaded, like most of the world, doesn't mean you or they are right. Altruism is out there, and far more abundant than you know. People sometimes don't mention what good deeds they've done simply because they have no need for a pat on the back.
It's not about accolades, it's about what's doing right. Go ahead and rest on your pride, just don't be surprised when it collapses out from under you and fall flat on your face and bust it wide open.
And this is not a competition. This is about people's lives. It's not about who can give more, so they have bragging rights. You need a wake up call. Or, I should say, just grow up.
Caelus wrote:5150 Cruiser wrote:Once all my bills are paid and if i have some money left over, I'll gladly make a donation.
And that's all I'm asking. That's no more than I've done.
No. That is not all that you're asking. You're pushing and prodding and being prickish about it, when you have no idea whether or not someone's already given a donation. You sit in judgment and point fingers and you make people want to just slap you across the face, so hard that spit comes flying out. You know those ones, they sting so bad a grown man will well up with tears? Yeah, that kind of slap and you deserve it.
All your posts serve to do is this: "I GAVE! LOOK AT ME! I'M A FRIGGIN' SUPERHERO! SURE, OTHERS GAVE MORE, BUT I GAVE AND THAT'S WHAT MATTERS! I'M GONNA PAT MYSELF ON THE BACK!" Don't pull that arm out of socket, you'll need to use it again.
But you ARE asking people to do more than you've done.
Caelus wrote:5150 Cruiser wrote:While you might feel that thoughts and prayers don't do anything, if people didn't care then they probably wouldn't have even bothered to post in this thread.
Oh, I'm sure they care; if they didn't care, they wouldn't feel the need to absolve themselves of guilt by telling us how much they care, and vociferously defending the power of prayer and positive thinking.
Wow. There is a streak of evil and mean in you a mile wide. No one's absolving any guilt. They're speaking from the heart when they pray for these people. There's nothing wrong with praying to God. If you have issues with it, well then you might as well take it up with him, but be careful where you tread, he might just respond.
Matthew 4:7 wrote:Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God
And there is proof that prayer has helped, especially during medical procedures. You can Google it for yourself. Oh wait...is your mouse hand the "I'ma pat myself on the back" hand? I'll bet it's all worn out. Here...
http://www.healthsearches.org/Categorie ... e/1335.phpAnd here...
http://www.guideposts.org/prayer/power- ... ounce-backAnd you mentioned in another post that you're up on your high horse. You have no reason to be. None.
Isaiah 64:6 wrote:But we are all as an unclean [thing], and all our righteousnesses [are] as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.
You're self righteous, you have no reason to be and it's disgusting. Ryan/Seibertron gave more than you did, you admit it, and he's not strutting around, patting himself on his back.
This is not a game, this is not a contest, this is about people's lives, and if anyone's trying to make themselves feel better, IT'S YOU.
Now, do us all a favor and get down off of that high horse, before you get a nosebleed. Because we want to be the ones who give it to you.
Caelus wrote:5150 Cruiser wrote:But please understand that your finacial situation, no matter how little, or much you make is not that of the next person who posts in this thread. spo please don't judge someone if they can't donate at this time.
The thing is, I could about guarantee you that 95% of the people over 18 who visit this site could cough up $10 for charity without sacrificing anything significant, but given the much cheaper alternative of just 'thinking' about it, they will not.
How dare you. You don't know what people are capable of. I'd love it if you'd just shut up. You're being a troll, and in one of the worst threads to do it in.
Caelus wrote:If the small handful of people who legitimately can't afford it are offended by what I'm saying - well, that's unfortunate, and I feel bad for them because we should probably be raising money for them, too - but I'm not exactly bothered by it if it motivates the larger number of people who know they can and should do something to follow through.
You don't feel bad for anyone. And you're not bothered at all. You're enjoying this. You have been from the beginning. What is WRONG with you?
Caelus wrote:The other thing is - if I continue to kick up enough of a fuss, people will remember this conversation the next time they are at the store, pick up a $13 deluxe class Transformer, and head to the check out line. If they aren't convinced to do more than wish and pray right now, maybe they'll change their minds then.
You don't have the right to "kick up enough of a fuss". Last I checked, you were a HMW Moderator, yet I don't see that tag anymore. I see now that you clearly didn't deserve it. If this is how you act, then you have no right to be in a position of power telling people how to do things. You just think you do. And you're wrong.
And they most certainly don't need you to change their minds. And just to piss you off, I wouldn't be surprised if some do exactly what you don't want them to do, just to get back at you. Sure, it sucks, but I know that deep down it would drive you nuts. And that's enjoyable.
Caelus wrote:And in fact, the intensity of the protestations so far would suggest that I'm not wasting my time. It's the funny thing about guilt - if you actually feel enough of it that you need to defend yourself or to run away from the situation, it's a pretty good sign that the guilt is warranted. If you really aren't in a position to help, you know what I'm saying doesn't apply to you, and that is that. If you feel you have to explain why you can't help, or don't need to help, it's probably a sign that you should.

Shut. Up. Please. We're all just a little bit sick of this by this point.
NOTE: Realize that I am not a perfect Christian, nor do I profess to be. I apologize if anyone's ever offended by me, I'm not perfect. Don't hold my posts and opinions against other Christians.