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Burn wrote:At the end of the day though I feel we can try our hardest to consciously not post something that will offend someone, but without the verbal inclinations, they're just words on the screen and can easily be misinterpretted or taken out of context.
That in it's self I think is a big part of problems on discussion boards.
OptiMagnus10 wrote:but I think I'll come back tommorow to contribute. It's 1:00 a.m. here. A little late.
Autobot032 wrote:Burn wrote:But why be disappointed?
It's their lives, it's their passion, it's theirs to enjoy how they feel like just like yours is yours to enjoy how you want.
Why be concerned about how others feel about TF's? Just enjoy them your way.
Because it's difficult to find joy when you feel surrounded by naysayers.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but no one recognizes it. It's easier to tear down and troll, than it is to say "I disagree, but hey, whatever floats your boat. re power to ya."
After a steady dose of "YOU'RE WRONG! THEY SUCK AND YOU SUCK FOR LIKING EM!" and having it come from several people at once....it takes it's toll.
The joys of sharing fly right out the window.
We're supposed to have a sense of community here on the boards (when I say here, I don't mean just Seibertron, I mean the online community as a whole), but lately, everyone's more interested in their opinion being the golden truth and your's doesn't matter.
You say we should ignore them and just be satisfied in our own little piece of the world, and that's true, to an extent, but how are we supposed to be communal when we're feeling ostracized?
Especially over toys, cartoons and comic books? That's a sucker punch to the kidneys when you finally let it sink in.
"I'm getting the **** beat out of me by some idiot...over toys? How low have *I* sunk?"
That shouldn't be happening. Ever.
So, yeah, it's entirely possible to have someone else suck the fun out of it for you. Even if we shouldn't let them bother us with their words, we do, anyway. We're human, we're prone to doing just that. Even the people who seem to keep a stiff upper lip, they finally cave at some point, no one's impervious.
That's part of what makes us human. We're not machines, we were never intended to be, and when we seek the approval of our peers and we end up spat upon, it does bring dismay.
Rodimus the Prime wrote:Autobot032 wrote:Burn wrote:But why be disappointed?
It's their lives, it's their passion, it's theirs to enjoy how they feel like just like yours is yours to enjoy how you want.
Why be concerned about how others feel about TF's? Just enjoy them your way.
Because it's difficult to find joy when you feel surrounded by naysayers.
Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but no one recognizes it. It's easier to tear down and troll, than it is to say "I disagree, but hey, whatever floats your boat. re power to ya."
After a steady dose of "YOU'RE WRONG! THEY SUCK AND YOU SUCK FOR LIKING EM!" and having it come from several people at once....it takes it's toll.
The joys of sharing fly right out the window.
We're supposed to have a sense of community here on the boards (when I say here, I don't mean just Seibertron, I mean the online community as a whole), but lately, everyone's more interested in their opinion being the golden truth and your's doesn't matter.
You say we should ignore them and just be satisfied in our own little piece of the world, and that's true, to an extent, but how are we supposed to be communal when we're feeling ostracized?
Especially over toys, cartoons and comic books? That's a sucker punch to the kidneys when you finally let it sink in.
"I'm getting the **** beat out of me by some idiot...over toys? How low have *I* sunk?"
That shouldn't be happening. Ever.
So, yeah, it's entirely possible to have someone else suck the fun out of it for you. Even if we shouldn't let them bother us with their words, we do, anyway. We're human, we're prone to doing just that. Even the people who seem to keep a stiff upper lip, they finally cave at some point, no one's impervious.
That's part of what makes us human. We're not machines, we were never intended to be, and when we seek the approval of our peers and we end up spat upon, it does bring dismay.
But is someone actually bashing you directly? (i.e. is someone saying "Autobot32, you're a complete effing tool because you like such and such!) Or are you just saying that when someone takes issue with what you like, then it feels like you're being attacked?
Autobot032 wrote:Rodimus the Prime wrote:But is someone actually bashing you directly? (i.e. is someone saying "Autobot32, you're a complete effing tool because you like such and such!) Or are you just saying that when someone takes issue with what you like, then it feels like you're being attacked?
I've had both, to be honest. I have had people actually say "you're an idiot, stfu."
OptiMagnus10 wrote:
First of all, I'd like to thank you Smoketreader for adding your opinions to these threads. You seem to put good thought into them.
I also don't know why you quoted my last paragraph with out adding to it.
I'd also like to point out one phrase you said that resonated with me:
WE HAVE TO KEEP GOING
OptiMagnus10 wrote:Dagon wrote:OptiMagnus10 wrote:Burn wrote:I understand what you are saying, ok, but being open minded and accepting and stuff is a two way street. People probably shouldn't hope that a movie you like will fail, but not everyone is going to like everything. Sure some people have been jags about the Bay movies, but that's not fair to me either.
I didn't like Revenge of the Fallen, and I've stated that before. I have never yelled and screamed about how it sucks or it's for morons or anything, but I get yelled at because people do that. So, if I'm not supposed to say that I didn't like something you liked, why can people yell at me because some other guy was less than considerate? Some one told me I had a persecution complex and did this whole psycho analysis on me like they know me as a person because I didnt like a movie, but it's me who's the closed minded and insensitive one? Right. I didn't like the movie. I never got loud and wild about it, and I didn't let other peoples' crybabying "ruin the franchise" for me. Sometimes, you liking something needs to be good enough for you, and not the approval of every other Internet persona.
Well, I'm glad you haven't yelled and screamed that it sucks. That says you are open minded. But I don't understand what you mean by you getting yelled at for something you didn't do. Also, I'm not saying we shouldn't say we don't like something, but it's when we hound people for something they like, and our only reason is "because it sucks and it's for morons". Those aren't real reasons. And yes, I have a few issues with TF2. The stupid sexual jokes, the high mom, Jolt had almost NO SCREEN TIME. I really wanted Jolt to have a big role...ok I got off track there. I hope when you discuss with others why you don't like the movies, you also give real reasons as to why you don't. Just saying it sucks is a close minded statement.
And someone tried to do some psycho analysis on you? Ok that's just a little out there.
Burn wrote:OptiMagnus10 wrote:but I think I'll come back tommorow to contribute. It's 1:00 a.m. here. A little late.
Slacker.![]()
(Not that i've done a late nighter in the last year or so)
Rodimus the Prime wrote:EDIT: Never mind, had a bunch to say, but it seems pointless and this discussion has already worn me out (I'm therefore going to follow my own advice, lol).
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