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What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Autobot032 » Fri Oct 15, 2010 11:08 pm

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Burn wrote:At the end of the day though I feel we can try our hardest to consciously not post something that will offend someone, but without the verbal inclinations, they're just words on the screen and can easily be misinterpretted or taken out of context.

That in it's self I think is a big part of problems on discussion boards.


Agreed.

This is also a good example of why I say I don't always try to be a dick. Because I really don't. There are many times when I'm in a good mood and post and people think I'm raging out or ranting. It's simply not the case, and no matter how I try to explain it, people don't believe me or don't want to.

It's far more entertaining to actively seek strife than it is to be peaceable. Especially on the internet.

It's bred in us, we're animals, and it's one of our urges.
It's too bad that the internet allows us to feed those urges, at the expense of another person.
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Burn » Fri Oct 15, 2010 11:34 pm

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OptiMagnus10 wrote:but I think I'll come back tommorow to contribute. It's 1:00 a.m. here. A little late.


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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Rodimus the Prime » Sat Oct 16, 2010 2:53 am

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Autobot032 wrote:
Burn wrote:But why be disappointed?

It's their lives, it's their passion, it's theirs to enjoy how they feel like just like yours is yours to enjoy how you want.

Why be concerned about how others feel about TF's? Just enjoy them your way.


Because it's difficult to find joy when you feel surrounded by naysayers.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but no one recognizes it. It's easier to tear down and troll, than it is to say "I disagree, but hey, whatever floats your boat. re power to ya."

After a steady dose of "YOU'RE WRONG! THEY SUCK AND YOU SUCK FOR LIKING EM!" and having it come from several people at once....it takes it's toll.

The joys of sharing fly right out the window.

We're supposed to have a sense of community here on the boards (when I say here, I don't mean just Seibertron, I mean the online community as a whole), but lately, everyone's more interested in their opinion being the golden truth and your's doesn't matter.

You say we should ignore them and just be satisfied in our own little piece of the world, and that's true, to an extent, but how are we supposed to be communal when we're feeling ostracized?

Especially over toys, cartoons and comic books? That's a sucker punch to the kidneys when you finally let it sink in.

"I'm getting the **** beat out of me by some idiot...over toys? How low have *I* sunk?"

That shouldn't be happening. Ever.

So, yeah, it's entirely possible to have someone else suck the fun out of it for you. Even if we shouldn't let them bother us with their words, we do, anyway. We're human, we're prone to doing just that. Even the people who seem to keep a stiff upper lip, they finally cave at some point, no one's impervious.

That's part of what makes us human. We're not machines, we were never intended to be, and when we seek the approval of our peers and we end up spat upon, it does bring dismay.


But is someone actually bashing you directly? (i.e. is someone saying "Autobot32, you're a complete effing tool because you like such and such!) Or are you just saying that when someone takes issue with what you like, then it feels like you're being attacked?
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Autobot032 » Sat Oct 16, 2010 3:18 am

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Rodimus the Prime wrote:
Autobot032 wrote:
Burn wrote:But why be disappointed?

It's their lives, it's their passion, it's theirs to enjoy how they feel like just like yours is yours to enjoy how you want.

Why be concerned about how others feel about TF's? Just enjoy them your way.


Because it's difficult to find joy when you feel surrounded by naysayers.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but no one recognizes it. It's easier to tear down and troll, than it is to say "I disagree, but hey, whatever floats your boat. re power to ya."

After a steady dose of "YOU'RE WRONG! THEY SUCK AND YOU SUCK FOR LIKING EM!" and having it come from several people at once....it takes it's toll.

The joys of sharing fly right out the window.

We're supposed to have a sense of community here on the boards (when I say here, I don't mean just Seibertron, I mean the online community as a whole), but lately, everyone's more interested in their opinion being the golden truth and your's doesn't matter.

You say we should ignore them and just be satisfied in our own little piece of the world, and that's true, to an extent, but how are we supposed to be communal when we're feeling ostracized?

Especially over toys, cartoons and comic books? That's a sucker punch to the kidneys when you finally let it sink in.

"I'm getting the **** beat out of me by some idiot...over toys? How low have *I* sunk?"

That shouldn't be happening. Ever.

So, yeah, it's entirely possible to have someone else suck the fun out of it for you. Even if we shouldn't let them bother us with their words, we do, anyway. We're human, we're prone to doing just that. Even the people who seem to keep a stiff upper lip, they finally cave at some point, no one's impervious.

That's part of what makes us human. We're not machines, we were never intended to be, and when we seek the approval of our peers and we end up spat upon, it does bring dismay.


But is someone actually bashing you directly? (i.e. is someone saying "Autobot32, you're a complete effing tool because you like such and such!) Or are you just saying that when someone takes issue with what you like, then it feels like you're being attacked?


I've had both, to be honest. I have had people actually say "you're an idiot, stfu."
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Burn » Sat Oct 16, 2010 7:07 am

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Autobot032 wrote:
Rodimus the Prime wrote:But is someone actually bashing you directly? (i.e. is someone saying "Autobot32, you're a complete effing tool because you like such and such!) Or are you just saying that when someone takes issue with what you like, then it feels like you're being attacked?


I've had both, to be honest. I have had people actually say "you're an idiot, stfu."


I lost count the number of times I saw **** like that tossed around just before and after the first movie was released. (Not specifically at Autobot032, but pretty much anyone who liked the first movie)

My god that time was insane.
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby G1 Smoketreader » Sat Oct 16, 2010 7:57 am

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OptiMagnus10 wrote:

First of all, I'd like to thank you Smoketreader for adding your opinions to these threads. You seem to put good thought into them.

I also don't know why you quoted my last paragraph with out adding to it.

I'd also like to point out one phrase you said that resonated with me:
WE HAVE TO KEEP GOING



1)Thank you, too. I'm as grateful that I can be useful as I am that these threads exist, and that I get to talk (and learn from) some awesome people whilst going through them.I really want to encourage all the watching folks to get involved, too (in the threads they are willing to participate in, of course).

2) That's 'cuz I'm StOOpid. Matbe I should change my name to "Me:Smowktreddur".Heheh.

3) We owe it to the new folks who make accounts here only to wade into a (sometimes) warzone, then get involved in all the action only to have us be like
"Aw, Man, are you still THERE? Seriously, I wish people would just...*Frrrtz*..*Pltztl*...*anger*..*hatred*...*bash,tear,dent,flame*..."

and, to Ubertronian, I forwarded your feedback about the Sig to my girl (it's her quote, anyway) and her eyes lit up and she felt 'speshul' for a little while. Thank you, too.

Don't bother replying to this post tho, specifically because the whole thread has moved on and this is old news now.
"Everyone has a hobby.Even people who say they don't still have one under another name.If we're sick,injured, we still go to it and get down to see how it is.If it needs something, we bring it,make sure the attention is perfect.It exercises our care and protection and gives us back philosophies.It's a living thing to us,and is the most perfect way to teach a young person how to be towards a living thing. It's something that should never be taken away."
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Dagon » Sat Oct 16, 2010 8:01 am

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OptiMagnus10 wrote:
Dagon wrote:
OptiMagnus10 wrote:
Burn wrote:I understand what you are saying, ok, but being open minded and accepting and stuff is a two way street. People probably shouldn't hope that a movie you like will fail, but not everyone is going to like everything. Sure some people have been jags about the Bay movies, but that's not fair to me either.
I didn't like Revenge of the Fallen, and I've stated that before. I have never yelled and screamed about how it sucks or it's for morons or anything, but I get yelled at because people do that. So, if I'm not supposed to say that I didn't like something you liked, why can people yell at me because some other guy was less than considerate? Some one told me I had a persecution complex and did this whole psycho analysis on me like they know me as a person because I didnt like a movie, but it's me who's the closed minded and insensitive one? Right. I didn't like the movie. I never got loud and wild about it, and I didn't let other peoples' crybabying "ruin the franchise" for me. Sometimes, you liking something needs to be good enough for you, and not the approval of every other Internet persona.

Well, I'm glad you haven't yelled and screamed that it sucks. That says you are open minded. But I don't understand what you mean by you getting yelled at for something you didn't do. Also, I'm not saying we shouldn't say we don't like something, but it's when we hound people for something they like, and our only reason is "because it sucks and it's for morons". Those aren't real reasons. And yes, I have a few issues with TF2. The stupid sexual jokes, the high mom, Jolt had almost NO SCREEN TIME. I really wanted Jolt to have a big role...ok I got off track there. I hope when you discuss with others why you don't like the movies, you also give real reasons as to why you don't. Just saying it sucks is a close minded statement.
And someone tried to do some psycho analysis on you? Ok that's just a little out there.


Yeah, someone listed all my lifes' problems, based on my dislike of ROTF. For the record, they were wrong on every point, as far as I remember.

I'd like to think that I can express my dislike of ROTF in a sensible and rational fashion, but look man, this whole discussion and all of its' peripherals boils down to a matter of perception. Whether you're right or you're wrong, or you like something or don't, those are matters of your perception. I can explain something to you in the calmest, most rational way possible. But if you perceive it differently, then I'm being antagonistic. It kind of boils down to what really matters more, what I mean or what you interpret. If I call you a jerk but I mean it as a joke, what''s more important? That it was supposed to be a joke, or that you don't like being called a jerk? Yes yes, politeness and everything, but what I'm talking about is the logic of the example. What means more, intent or interpretation? What if I call you a jerk maliciously and you take it as a compliment? Am I still Hitleresque for calling you a jerk even though you've taken it as a positive?
In the end, Burn is right, among other people,but it's early and I didn't get much sleep, so Burn stuck in my head. IF you like some thing and other people don't, so what? I typed it somewhere last night and while it may have been seen as antagonistic, it wasn't meant to be. If you need the approval of others to validate your enjoyment maybe your enjoyment isn't as genuine as you try to portray it as. Yous are general, not specific to you, ok? Yes it's irritating to have people slag things you like, but if you like them then why are you so dependant on the views of others to validate you?
Ultimately we're typing on the internet. We are faceless people here. Sure we have screen names but so what? Dagon isn't my name, it's Don, and I'm living in Chicago and I prefer G1 because I grew up with it and not because I didn;t love some dumb summer action movie. I am a collection of my various parts and elements and thoughts, and I project those things onto text I read off my computer screen. I make a typing mistake and suddenly a word has too many capital letters or the wrong punctuation mark or a number and suddenly you read it and think you percieve hostility or joviality or whatever, and all it was was a typo. If I use an exclamation mark it doesn't mean I'm angry at you, but if that's what you percieve it as, then what am I going to say? If I see your sig pic and don't like it or it reminds me of someone I hate in real life, then I'm going to read your post differently, and no amount of trying to persuade me out of it is going to change that, because it's human nature, not personal.
Nobody's ever going to see it your way, because that's YOUR WAY of seeing, and that's a part of the human mind. We are most definately entitled to our opinions, but that really doesn't mean we are beholden to accept the opinions of others. I don't even have to try to agree with you, or see things your way, but as a decent person I should at least respect that you have a differing opinion and I do. And as for ROTF, the people who scream lunacies about it are far fewer than people like me who just didn't like it, and the same with Animated and even with real life issues. If we want a place to express our opinions then we need to be ready to deal with opposing opinions. A discussion board where everyone is made to agree, whether it's by rules or other nefarious means, is boring. I'm glad you like the Bay movies, I really am. But I don't have to, and you have no right to try to make me, or to insinuate that I must, or insinuate that I'm an awful person becasue I dont. I said it before: opposition is true friendship.
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby Rodimus the Prime » Sat Oct 16, 2010 2:36 pm

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EDIT: Never mind, had a bunch to say, but it seems pointless and this discussion has already worn me out (I'm therefore going to follow my own advice, lol).
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby OptiMagnus » Sat Oct 16, 2010 3:57 pm

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Burn wrote:
OptiMagnus10 wrote:but I think I'll come back tommorow to contribute. It's 1:00 a.m. here. A little late.


Slacker. :P
(Not that i've done a late nighter in the last year or so)

Yeah buddy, I don't dismiss fine print. :lol: Ya gotta go to bed sometime.
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Re: What REALLY Ruins TFs FOREVER.

Postby OptiMagnus » Sat Oct 16, 2010 4:02 pm

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Rodimus the Prime wrote:EDIT: Never mind, had a bunch to say, but it seems pointless and this discussion has already worn me out (I'm therefore going to follow my own advice, lol).

No, I disagree. You've contributed a lot to this thread. It's not pointless. I felt like we were all getting somewhere after the fingerpointing and accusation phase.
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