Shadowman wrote:Megan ran upstairs, and her father, Ron, tried to tell her everything would be fine. About 20 minutes later, she was found in her bedroom. She died the next day.
So...they found her some time after she hanged herself (No more than 19 minutes)...and she somehow succumbed to her wounds the next day?
I was guessing she broke her neck, and that killed her as opposed to strangulation.
To those that say suicide is for attention, I would say that *attempted* suicides are often for attention; suicide attempts made with the intention (conscious or subconscious) of being stopped or saved. Slitting your wrists incorrectly for example, or calling someone just before you go to it. Of course, sometimes they bungle, and they do end up dying, so certainly
some successful suicides are for attention, just the same as
some are for revenge ('punishing' those that have wronged you by saddling them with guilt), and
some are to avoid a fate the individual perceives as worse than death (like going to a prison and being roommates with 260lb convict that doesn't get regular conjugal visits).
If you're going to insist on equating suicide and murder, then at least assume that the motives and justifications for suicide are as diverse as those for murder.
The funny thing is, normally I'd respect other people's opinions, say, 'let's agree to disagree', but I used to think like some of you do. As an ignorant teenager, I condemned those who committed suicide as selfish, weak-willed fools (ironic, considering it was probably my own weak will that saved me from doing the same at that age). But a few years of higher education and self-examination changed my mind, so I'm inclined to perceive such black-and-white perspectives as a product of ignorance or naivete rather than valid, well-informed opinions.
Jeysie wrote:I think that saying someone should be happy with a miserable life because "it could be worse" just exacerbates the depression, since a person will probably feel guilty and beat themselves up for actually having a normal reaction of being unhappy.
QFT. Lord I know that feeling.